Teenage Thoughts About Marriage
Everywhere I look, I see all sorts of marriages—broken ones, divorced ones, unhealthy ones and OK-ish ones. Very rarely do I see a couple that makes me think, Wow, that is a great marriage! They really love each other and put each other first. I want my marriage to be like that.
I’m only 16, and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I’ve never dated. I’m basically saving myself completely for marriage. I want a wonderful, perfect marriage. Yeah, yeah, I know. No marriage is flawless. There will always be something, but I don’t want to use that as an excuse. I want my marriage to be the absolute best it can possibly be. This obviously won’t come easily, but I’m still young, and I’m willing to work on it.
What can I start doing now so that my future marriage will truly reflect Christ’s relationship with the church?
—Luke, Quelimane, Mozambique
EDITOR’S NOTE: While marriage isn’t God’s will for every person, what can guys like Luke do now to prepare for the future? Send in your thoughts.